who you are

Ever thought of, why people keeps asking who do you want to be? I have never really liked that question. Why fokus on what or who you wanna be, when you never really can be that exactly person anyway, at least not with out letting the true you down. Insted I think people should ask "who you are". I think it´s much more importen to figure out who you are, than who you wanna be, couse I only belive that someone can be truely happy, if they are true to them self. And not some dream about the perfect person.